What do men and women often think when arguing?

What do men and women often think when arguing?

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When arguing, men often have to appease and offer an apology before so that the argument can go to an end.
"You were wrong but you still do not know that?"
"Today I quarreled with my lover. Even I talked hundreds of times, he still repeated the same mistakes. I have occasionally found embarrassed with myself: I wonder why that man had such thoughts, as if he did not love me but just dated with me because he had nothing to do..."

"Today my girlfriend is angry as fire again. I surely do not know what I was wrong. First of all, I still insisted on her forgiveness, but after thinking it over, I found that today she was wrong. I do not understand why my girlfriend turned out so angry with me?"

No matter how the couples love each other, they still argue due to a saying only. "If we had not met each other, we would have not argued like that. Dating gave nothing to me." Have you ever once thought so yet? Men and women are basically two individuals with different thoughts, particularly those different points will disclose when they argue.

Why do the couples always ague for a reason only? If it is because of differences in thought, then what are they?

1. Everyone remembers in the most pleasant direction for them

In anything, men and women always remember the most pleasant direction for them. It is true that there is always a not clear part in the memories of people, they will forget the part detrimental to themselves over time and only remember the part which their partner did wrong.

Accordingly, when any event happens, they always insist that "there was no such thing" or "he/she remembered wrong." Criticizing partner by such ways will bring unexpected results.

2. Men always appreciate the situation more than feelings

Women always want men to understand their feelings and appease them. However men also want women to grasp and understand the real situation when arguing. There are cases where couples do not give priority to find who is wrong, men always must appease and beg for forgiveness before so that the argument can go to an end.

No matter how the man is tolerant and easy-going, if the argument repeats like that, they will eventually become tired. Woman who knows to think about the position of man is person who holds the key to keep love durable.

3. "Just leave me for a while" - The vulnerability of men can be resolved by time.

When arguing, men always want some time to be alone. Try looking couples around you. When arguing, men always try to say less, while women often say more and more.

Men just need time to solve every problem. Women are on the other hand, they always want to capture everything, engage in all aspects of the issue. If the argument unfortunately comes from women, give men a little private time so that their exasperation will be released in a natural way.