Tips To Note That You Are The Poorest Among Your Friends
Do you earn less money than your friends? You may feel ashamed to be
the poorest among your friends, but it does not mean that you should
stay away from rich friends. If you are a true friend, your budget does
not prevent you from keeping in touch with your friends.
However, you may feel uncomfortable when you cannot afford to pay in
some situations, so here are some tips to help you deal with your
poverty.
1. Do not expect them to pay for you
You should never use your friends as a source of money. They cannot
provide you with everything needed as your parents or lover has done. If
your friends are rich, it does not mean that they have a lot of cash,
even if they have much, that is not yours and you do not have permission
to use it. In case they want to buy you something, do not expect them
to pay for you every time you go out with them.
2. Tell the truth
When you are invited to attend a luxury party of your friend but you
yourself have some other plans for your funds, tell the truth. Do not
feel embarrassed about it. If you lie, you will be treated like a liar.
Do not invent a reason why you cannot join them. The truth is always
better than any lie.
3. Never borrow money from your friends
If you have problems, you may borrow some money from your friends. But
do not let this become a habit. Although it is not a problem for the
rich to share with you some cash, it can be a significant problem to you
if you always have huge debts.
4. Help your friends
You may be poorer than your friends, but you do have some other
advantages. Always help them when they have problems. This makes them
forget how much you owe and they will treat you like a true friend.
5. Do not try to prove to be rich
When in a group of rich friends, you tend to cover up and also want to
prove to be rich. But you should not do it. Pretending is never a good
choice in every situation and sooner or later, everyone will know your
true financial situation. They will shun you not because of your tight
budget but your lie. A true friend will not judge you by your money.
6. Participate in less costly activities
It is not necessary to engage in costly activities to demonstrate
friendship. You can proactively suggest your friends some fun activities
fitting your budget like organizing a picnic or simply spending a day
in the park or camping.
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